COUPLES TAG: I told my sista-in law Sarah, I would try to do this one (weeks ago) and since we haven't even met...I figured I shouldn't let her down (I'm expecting a comment at least Sarah!!! ;-)
1. What are your middle names? Thomas Marc and Melody Marsheesha...j/k I don't have one
2. How long have you been together? Since the end of May 2003
3. How long did you know each other before you started dating? Not long! about 6 months!
4. Who asked whom out? it was kind of mutual...I guess he officially asked me out though...
5. How old are you? Oh dear! I am 28...for another few days and Tom is 26 for a fewer more days.
6. Whose siblings do you see the most? we see more of his, but we're the only people on both sides of our families that live in Colorado, so we don't see anyone all too often...
7. Do you have any children together? Sure do! Taylor will be 3 in July and Maxwell just turned 1!
8. Pets? Yep! Maddie, a grand yellow Labrador who just turned 5 less than a month ago and whom we've had since she was 8 weeks old!
9. Which situation is the hardest on you as a couple? hmmmm....we don't have a lot of hard situations as a couple...mostly b/c he's such a super husband...it would probably have to be my pathetic mood swings! Poor him! well, he does like to throw wrappers on the floor next to our bed all the time!!! ;-)
10. Did you go to the same school? we both went to Utah State together
11. Are you from the same town? nope! he's from a teensy town in northern Utah and I grew up in the south (Georgia) and the grand state of Missour-a!!!
12. Who is the smartest? We each have our own things we're smarter in...but over all I think he's more smart and wise...
13. Who is the most sensitive? me.
14. Where do you eat out most as a couple? where ever we have coupons! ;-) Seriously! we still live like we're college kids! we also really love On the Border and Costa Vida.
15. Where is the farthest you have traveled as a couple? Georgia and northwest coast...
16. Who has the craziest exes? only one who I would say (was-hopefully he's worked through some issues) crazy...heaven help him!
17. Who has the worst temper? me, I can get frustrated easily, but Tom helps me to be more calm
18. Who does the cooking? mostly me...I enjoy cooking, but Tom is great at helping...he always cooks the salmon for me (I like to eat it, but not cook it!)
19. Who is more social? definitely me.
20. Who is the neat freak? probably more of me...it drives me crazy when our home isn't clean...our kids just don't seem to feel the same way! ;-) but, Tom is a very quick efficient cleaner and I'm more detail oriented.
21. Who is more stubborn? me....oh dear! why did I decide to answer this!?
22. Who hogs the bed? That would be Tom! ;-)
23. Who wakes up earlier? we usually get up at the same time unless one of us has something earlier...Tom has a really early breakfast meeting once a month and I have been going to a 5:30 a.m. spin class once a week
24. Where was your first date? subway and a park...we took forever to finish our sandwiches b/c we are really slow eaters when we're having a conversation....and we were having a NICE. long conversation!
25. Who has the bigger family? he does! there are 10 boys and 1 girl in his family!
26. Do you get flowers often? often enough...he knows I love flowers and he's very sweet...my favorite is when he just does it out of the blue
27. How do you spend the holidays? lately, we've been alternating going to every other one for Thanksgiving and then the others for Christmas and switching each year...but after a rough Christmas (yeah, I'm still dealing with it! :-), we'll probably reconsider our plans this year.
28. Who is more jealous? it used to be me, but now we have built even more trust in our marriage and so I would say neither of us are jealous...we just don't give each other reason to be and we trust each other. It's great!
29. How long did it take to get serious? not very long at all!
30. Who eats more? he does. I try to make sure of that...after we got married, I packed on quite a bit of extra weight...I kept feeling like his family probably went home after we got together and said, "so, do you think Mel is pregnant?" I wasn't! I've just recently lost that weight and hope to keep it that way!
31. Who does the laundry? me-I like doing laundry! actually doing it now...
32. Who is better with the computer? Tom--I think he's better at most everything! ;-) Seriously!
33. Who drives when you are together? he does most of the time, but I try to too, so I can keep up those safe driving skills!
I tag: Sarah R., Holli, Wendy, Misti and Alyssa!!!